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Is There More.....

i have been married for 21 years and my husband just came home from a 3 year station in alaska. before he left i felt we were very close and now the compassion that was once there is no longer. he is killing what love i have for him because he spends more time on his computer either doing homework for the upteen classes he is taking online or he is playing some stupid computer game that he thinks i really want to hear about after working 40 hours a week. he doesn't care about me anymore and my heart is shutting down. question is....do i leave him now while we have two kids at home or do i wait for them to leave for college?? i am so angry and hurt right now.
theredhd theredhd 46-50 3 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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well you have chosen to crib and he has chosen to distance<br />
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who wins <br />
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no body<br />
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you have the right to make the best days for yourself<br />
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it is your choice of being a loser and playing the game on you lose i lose<br />
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if you seriously love yourself then you must choose to make the best for yourself even if you may have to trample on somebody<br />
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you must feel great about yourself, selfishly seeking the most and the best for yourself<br />
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you will find that happiness in oneness is the mirror to happiness in others

You don't say whether your marriage is intimate or not. However, if you look within the I live in a sexless marriage, forum, you will find a lot of advice on having The Talk with you husband. How to discuss your relationship and your needs. Even if not all the advice is pertinent to you - it may help you formulate your ideas about your marriage. Best wishes.

It's hard to give advie on someone else's marriage. I have been thru the being ignoredor it felt that way. I think you should sit him down and talk to him but don't do it in a fighting way just be honest he probably doesn't even realize what your truly feeling.