I'm Feeling Alone Right Now And Want To Talk

I would like to have some meaningful conversation at this moment. My partner is in his room sleeping. He doesn't feel well a lot of the time. It is lonely not having someone to talk with. I am craving a hug and a kiss, too. He is not very affectionate with me. I don't know why I stay in the relationship, but maybe it's becasue we have been together 10 years and it is comfortable in its own way. I worry about taking the risk of having an affair.

I could call the crisis hotline, but I am not feeling in crisis. I want to have a good laugh and joke and be alive. I don't feel very alive right now. I feel I am maintaining the status quo and the status quo is maintaining me.
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7 Responses Apr 29, 2012

I'm going through the same thing me and my wife is been married for 9 years and we have 3 boys together I love my family my kids and my wife I love her so much but she don't show love and or affection I don't know why I always compliment her tell her I love her buy her whatever she wants I help with the kids but that's because I want to i love my kids I help clean the house when she's really busy with cooking and kids we hardly have sex maybe once a month and that's me asking more than a few times I don't know what to do I've tried talking to her about it and it don't work she always says it's my fault because she wants to travel all year around but it's hard to do that kind of extensive traveling I work and with the kids and we vacation once or twice a year I feel so apart and I want to leave her but I love her and my kids too much I'm lost

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There are people out here to talk with you just have to seek them out and just say hi.

hi my name is juicymo i'm here to chat i know how it feels to just feel isolated and ignored

I had a thought can u tell him u want affection? If he says no than maybe u want to consider a seperation. Or find out why he wont give u attention. Maybe together u can talk about it and solve your problem. Maybe he wants attention a hug and kiss from u. Talking helps keep u on the same page in a relationship no one can read your mind. Hope that helps. Sometimes u need to tell a man what u want not let him guess. Some men jsut don't get the guessing part.

you can talk to me anytime to ,you should get out and socialize if your not happy in a relationship then get out

You can chat with me anytime.