Want To Be In Good RelationshipI really hope I can find a guy I have a lot in common with, and has the same flaws I have. I was always happiest when I associated with guys who had the same flaws I had. We perceived the society the same way, and were able to laugh together. I want to find a guy who is sensitive, and was over-sheltered by parents, had controling parents, and maybe also has blocked emotional development issues.
Being ambitious like me and into career and making money is a plus, but I'm mainly looking for someone who will fit with me (when it comes to internal social/emotional qualities).
I'm not interested in getting involved with a guy who I'm out of his league. I don't know a WHOLE lot about relationships, but one of my theorys is that a die alone formula for women is when they "hook up" or get sexually involved with a man who are in a better league then them, when they stay with a boyfriend like that for an extended period of time, or if they have a friends with benefits with one of those for a period of time. When I mention the man is in a better league I mean has experienced a better social life growing up, more sophisticated, has higher self esteem, had healthy emotional development, never went though the negative experiences I went through. I'm very serious about wanting to be in a good relationship, and am not interested in being some man's girl toy.
The guy who had it better than then girl will just use the girl as a toy and devalue her. I want a guy who wants to laugh with me, and relate to me, and be a very close companion, not look down on me or waste my time.
journeytowhere 22-25, F 3 Jun 21, 2011