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I am a divorced single mom of 2.  My ex left me 10 years ago when my children were 1 and 3.  At that point it was more important to me to raise them and get my life together than to be in search of a relationship.  Now my children are 13 and 11.  I find myself wishing for a someone to share the rest of my life with.  I have been out there dating.......I think dating was meant for young people with more patience then me! Long story short?  Not much luck.
jackie72 jackie72 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 27, 2006

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I know the feeling and have had good dates but no sparks or excitement...

Keep trying and wish you Extremely good luCk !

According to me, love is one of the great energy in human being's life. When we fall in love, our point of wiev immediately changes, ın another words, love effect us positively in our every step of our life. I think the people should try to search right one for them.Formerly, ı am in depression because of the difficulties of life.At that point one of my friends said to me, firstly you should change point of wiev so you need to encouraged and motivation and guiding. Later, ı bougt a some motivation based cds. I can advise you Love and appreciate yourself by Aleq Sini. This can help you for rest of your life.If you want you can have a look from this link



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be cool. ıt works:) It is effective by giving your subconscious mind the positive experience of self love for who you truly are:)



I wish great happiness in rest of your life.

BEING A MALE THAT MARRIED SOMEONE WITH KIDS AND YET SHE DIDNT APPRECIATE ME AFTER LITERALLY GRADUATING OUR KIDS AND HER KIDS FROM COLLEGE.MY POINT IS THERE ARE MANY MEN THAT WANT AUTOMATIC FAMILIES AND ARE GOOD FAMILY MEN. BUT THEY JUST WANT TO BE APPRECIATED. CAUTION THERE IS MORE MEN THAT WANT JUST SEX AND TO MESS AROUND AND NOT CONCERN WITH YOUR FEELINGS. SO MY POINT IS THERE IS HOPE AND YOU HAVE TO PLAY THE ODDS. EVERYONE KNOWS EVEN THE PASTORS HAVE COMMENTED AT THE MANY CHURCHES I SOMETIMES VISIT ABOUT HOW MEN AND WOMEN MOSTLY MEN GO TO CHURCH TO FIND A MATE. IT SEEMS WRONG BUT IT ALSO MAKES SENSE. ITS NOT A GUARANTEE BUT ITS A LOGICAL CHOICE. DEVELOP A FRIENDSHIP WITH MANY SINGLE MALES AND SEE WHERE IT GOES. THE PASTOR AT TIMES PREACHES ON FINDING A MATE. THE POINT IS FOR YOU TO BE AT THE PLACE THAT SINGLE MEN WILL BE NOT A BAR OR THINGS LIKE THAT BUT AT SOCIAL FUNCTIONS WHERE THEY MOST LIKELY WILL BE. AVAILABILITY IS THE KEY MAKE YOURSELF AVAILABLE TO SINGLE MEN TO FIND YOU. IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALKE TOO OF THE OPPOSITE SEX LETS CHAT SINCERELY BENJAMIN: REMEMBER YOUR BEAUTIFUL BOTH OUTSIDE AND INSIDE ALLOW MEN TO SEE THAT OF YOU. 1 OR 2 JERKS IN YOUR LIFE DOESNT DICTATE WHO YOU ARE ITS ON THEM AS THEY LOSS OUT ON BEING WITH A GREAT PERSON YOU: I SAY THIS NOT KNOWING YOU IN GENERAL BUT I RAISED 5 DAUGHTERS AND I VE GONE THRU THIER HARDSHIIPS AS WELL. AND IN REALITY IT WAS PREDICTABLE AND THEY WERE JERKS. WHAT CAN WE DO WE HAVE TO LOVE AND TRUST, BUT IN REALITY WE DONT HAVE TO DEPEND ON THE OTHER PERSON TO LOVE US BACK WE HOWEVER CAN HELP DEVELOP THAT THIS TIME AROUND. WHEN WE ARE YOUNG WE ARE YOUNG AND NAIVE. I KNOW THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR YOU AND ME SO LETS GO OUT THERE AND FIND THEM SINCERELY BENJAMIN :

I agree with both but I also think it's a combination of a lot of things! Marriage is not in anymore, having a traditional family is out the window for many, most are just looking for a friendship with benefits or a relationship that won't tie them down for years, there's no security anymore within a relationshiop aaaaand finally standards are changing. Men want other different things than women want, before men and women both wanted a special someone to grow old with now women and men have completely different ideas of what a "special someone" is.

I don't know about you girls but I'm 23 and the older I get the pickier I get and the less chances I seem to have to find the right guy. I guess it's because the more I date the more men I meet the more I narrow it down to what it is I want in a guy and many men don't fall into that category anymore. so sad :(

Yeah I know what you mean. It's hard to find someone. Someone good anyways. I don't think it has anything to do with your age though. I'm 26 and it's hard for me. I think it's just the way the world is. There are no morals anymore. Either that or I'm just old fashioned. It seems like everything is based on sex nowadays and instead of it having a meaning or being a way to express your love for someone it became like another way to shake hands. I dunno. The married couples that I know who have been married for a long time tell me they would never want to have to date in this day in age. They say it seems scary. It is!