Is Love Worth The Gamble?

Your friend had quite the advantage over you. She already knew what he was attracted to, you. Now all she needed to do was adopt the parts of your personality he fell for (Not hard for 20 something female friends) and a dash of I'm a little more easy going, less dramatic and lower maintenance than you. Now, he's a guy, who had sex with you already, she was a sexual mystery.
Now the good news for you.... First Love never dies. Allow yourself the time to heel, fall in love again, have fun and make a few mistakes. After you love again & (the hard part lose that love too) if your still thinking of your first, find him (look fab).
Emotionally you've moved on but sentiment may bring a tear to your eye. If your still interested in him as a boyfriend know without a seconds doubt he's been thinking of sex with you from the second he saw you.
The power is now all yours... Now what will you do? You'll know your heart will hold a special place & you'll always love him there (the place of first love we all have in our heart).
If you have sex with him you lose your power. Flirt give him your number whatever but he must work to earn your trust before you sleep with him. If you sleep with him he's gone again in the morning.
But, if you really want to try again odds say he will too (marriage & children factors apply). Remember he wasn't hurt or emasculated here, he left you.
The big BUT, You moved on, you look great and life has been good. You may, probably, won't want him as your boyfriend, you may want him right where he is. In that special place in your heart belonging to your first.
Now you may think "some story" , ok true, but search the net you'll be amazed at the first love second time around stories.
Go live, find a man that wouln't allow himself the best friend indulgence out of respect for you. Just because he's your first and is special because of that, it doesn't mean he's good or right or anything except a little tender spot in your heart. Good Luck...Live Load!

hi dear i have ben there wow it sure hurts a lot but the purson i loved left me

very difficult to be in that kind of situation
but life goes on
and I'm sure you'll find someone more deserving of you !
good luck !

Love is spelled RISK. It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved. Very clichéd I know but true. As time heals take care to grow in wisdom but do not to allow your heart to harden and you will surely find someone who will value your love.

It's not easy to forget any love. Though you sound like a sweetheart and I have no doubt that a much better guy is out there for you and you will find him when you least expect it. Until then just get through each day as it comes. Time will heal your wounds. Try to remember the good times as a great life experience.