Short Version Of My Story

I'm living with my fiance and his family. He is my soulmate and we plan to get married one day. We are just waiting for finacial stabillity so we can have a decent wedding. My family hates him and has turned their back on me. It'd be nice to have a normal relationship with them (them meaning my dad and 3 sisters). Oh well. I do have no intention to ever speak to my mom again. She's the real lunitic amoung them. I haven't spoken to her in over a year and could care less if I ever do again, even it she does try to makes things right again. I just wish I could have a normal relationship with my dad and sisters, though. I miss hanging out with my sisters and I wish my dad could be there for me wedding, and all the times I may need him. He's just also brainwashed from my mom. He lets her control his life. ***** wooped, as some people would call it. Maybe some day....

beautifulLove beautifulLove
22-25, F
1 Response Feb 22, 2010

Even if this is very true about your mom their is one thing to remember. "In his mind" if you're disrepecting your mom you're disrespecting him. It took me a while to figure this out myself at one point in my younger life with my mom. He and her are part of each other regardless of why. Sometimes we need to take the bad to have the good. Though that does not mean getting run over by her.<br />
I'm sorry you have to deal with such a relationship. It must truly be hard as I'm sure it makes you feel a loss in one way or another in your heart. I guess their is always hope that something someday will knock some guidence into her mind and heart to see what needs to be seen.<br />
Hugs,<br />