How Come I'm Never Complimented?
I've been dating this guy for 3 weeks...from the first night we hungout we had a major connection...2 days later we were a couple! At first I thought I maybe rushed into a relationship, because I was still getting to know him. I take chances though, and if it works out it does, and if it doesn't at least I know I tried. My boyfriend hasn't had a girlfriend in 2 years because girls in Orange County aren't the type of girls to have a committed relationship with. The first night we hungout...he told his friend on the phone playfully he was on a "hot date"- Okay so there's one compliment, right? Haha. We're pretty close to eachother and share a lot of the same interests. I'm the type of girl though who likes compliments, I don't need to hear "You're beautiful" every day- but every once in a while it's nice to hear that you're pretty or even APPRECIATED! I know my boyfriend appreciates me and all I do for him, but he never says it. About a week ago, we were getting a little intimate and I was wearing some Army gear because it was warm...he told me I looked so hot and told me I was sexy. Other than that, he hasn't complimented me at all. When my friend has been with her boyfriend for 2 years and they haven't gone one day without seeing eachother even if it was for 2 minutes, and he still makes an effort to tell her she's beautiful...no matter how she looks that day. I feel like my boyfriend is very comfortable around me, and maybe doesn't feel the need to compliment me because maybe he feels like I know I'm pretty and appreciated since he is with me? I don't know...but it really bugs me...I talked to my friend about it and she told me to not say anything so soon...just wait it out. SO that's what I'll do...I'll give it another month or so...and if I'm still not being complimented then I will bring it up or something...ahh....help what should i do!??!!