My Hero

At my work place, all the ladies -most of them are divorced mature women- are "in love" with my hubby.
They adore how he is constantly checking on me, his respectful and loving ways, his support with the children, how he takes care of everything...
Last week I had a stomach ache, so it was lunchtime and I didn't risk to eat my regular menu.
He called me and I told him I wasn't eating anything. 20 minutes later he was at my work. He brought me medicines and a special diet menu, cooked by himself... This meant he skipped his own lunchtime.
He is some kind of hero now!
They would never believe I am a "spanked wife" lol
anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 22, 2012

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You are so lucky to have a man that is so alert to your needs and unselfish to put you above his own wants and needs.

and thy would not belive you want it that way that your happy that HE is that way

So many don't understand that a man who is in charge of a woman is so because he cares about her very much and looks after her interests. Discipline is part of that caring. So a man who cares about his wife can be tender, like bringing a special lunch to her at work, as well as rough when he needs to be, like administering a hard spanking. It is about treating the total person.

To me that is what a proper HOH should do.

I love the reinforcment that he is strong FOR you not just to you. It is for your benfit (disiplne and training included).

That's great your husband takes care of you that way. I think you are the most amazing wife for him too, and he is truly lucky.

How sweet! You are lucky to have each other!

Are you really surprised? Take a look in the mirror and do not imagine impossibilities. I think all your colleagues have come to like you immediately. No member of your circles of so-called real friends and colleagues is able to imagine that you could be a reason for such a treatment and that you deserve some disliked pain. You of all people although you have a sympathetic ear for everyone and such a friendly innocent smile. I can imagine that these persons do not err.

You should see my temper tantrums!!! :-)

It is possible to bring everyone to a white heat. I think relatives or friends bear part of the blame if they do not interact in a becalming manner when a beloved person feels trapped.

I think what's most important in a relationship is that you truly care for each other, and it shows in your actions as well as in your words and thoughts.

Maybe sometime you ought to tell them you're a D / S couple and challenge their misconceptions.

That was really sweet of him. Kudos to him.... and to you for snagging such a great man ;-)