I just want to know from people who take me on as fan just what it is that we have in common. I want to know what brought me to their attention. I want to know what I did or said that they liked. Sometimes what prompts it is I made a comment on their story. I've made hundreds of comments. I usually will remember the comment, but I'm likely to forget the username of the person whose story I was commenting on. Refresh my memory, please.
I don't add every fan. I like to vet people, skimming through their stories, recent activities, experiences, confessions, and blog postings. I don't add somebody who is looking for a donation, as much as I may wish them luck. Haven't added anybody whose experiences were almost entirely erotic. Disinclined to add people who are full of fury and rage. But I certainly don't have to see eye to eye on everything with someone to add him.