Why Shouldn't It Be?

As humans, we need to be flexible if we are to evolve. However, extremists and many activists are trying to influence their views and beliefs on us just because they think or believe it should be done their way. This hasn't worked in the past and it wouldn't work today.

Polygamy or polyamory falls in that line of ignorance. People want to see it banned or just don't want to see it because they were brought up to think that. It's a purely emotional response without any evidence or logic to back it up. Yet, it is heterosexual couples that came up with the concept of cheating and infidelity. Why do we put such strict limits on our relationships?

I have believed for a long time that sex is simply an activity that everyone enjoys as long as they're brought up to enjoy it. Not to long ago I found out that it is possible to love more than one person. Not everyone is made this way, but it happens. Wouldn't you be much happier if you had more than one person that you enjoyed spending time with, being physical with, talking to, and nobody got jealous? People you could be open with and have fun doing goofy **** while living sucessful and fulfilling lives, people that could be true to themselves and each other; wouldn't that be great? That sounds like a real family to me.

What evidence says that any polyamorous relationship should be illegal? Does any scientific research say that any child that's raised in such an environment would grow up violent, prone to addiction, liable to become a sexual deviant, or mentally unstable? Why do some people want to try and destroy it? I would relish any answers to these questions.

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3 Responses Mar 9, 2009

How about do away with marriage all the way?<br />
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Just as stupid as polygamy!<br />
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Pity the child/children in a polygamus marriage! <br />
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They have enough worries in this world as it is!

personally i would love to have multiple wifes. thats if they are not dead beats and actually make some money. I find my sexual drive is too much for any woman to handle. having two wifes that get along well would be a dream come true. <br />
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as per the legality of it as long as everyone is on the same level and wants the life they are getting into you should be able to do whatever ya want. <br />
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its not like its hurtfull to others.

I gotta say - as a woman who has been married - there is no way in HELL that I could handle more than one husband. PERIOD - one *** is more than enough to wipe!! BUT - the idea of SHARING a guy with other women -- OK. I could DO that ..... :)

Why don't imagine your two husbands helping you around the house and one taking you shopping while the other one works?Doesn't it sound good? ;)