Infatuation

I recently met this awesome guy and I thought to myself, "hmmm maybe this is it, maybe he might be the one for me".. He seem to be so different than any guy I have ever met. All these questions were in my head and even though I usually say the same thing over and over again, I felt very infatuated by him. We hung out for 4 days when he was visiting my hometown. I met him through a friend of mine and we sorta hit it off really fast. He introduced me to his friends, and I got along with his friends REALLY well.. They approved of me but they didn't know what was going on between him and I.. I didn't know either. I was so befuddled about the things that was happening when I was hanging out with him. This guy that I met had a big crush on this girl that I know. She has never liked him in any of that matter. It was pretty much a unrequited love on his side. At this point I really don't know what to do anymore, I really like this guy but he doesn't seem to notice me, and I thought our feelings were mutual. I don't know what do with him anymore. I miss him so much and I wish he was here with me. I don't know what to do since he's such a reserve, introverted guy just like me. I guess this time I have to be the one that's chasing after him. I'm not used to having one sided love either. This is all new to me and I guess I have to either call it quits or chase after him.
Tamashi88 Tamashi88
22-25, F
4 Responses Nov 27, 2012

tell him how you feel!! at least you were lucky enough to have just 4 days with him. I would give anything to have just 4 days with the woman I love so tell him, please!

I've been in the exact same situation you are now. I loved a girl, but she didn't want me. It was awful, and it led me to the worst time of my life.

........And even after all that, i encourage people to fight for who they love. Show this guy how much you care about him. But be smarter than me, by not putting all your hopes on it.

tell him how you feel

if you love someone dont ever give up on them :)