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Curious About Spankings

I got my fair share of spankings from my mother when I was growing up. Most of the time, my sister and I got in trouble together and would both get spanked. I hated watching her get spanked, knowing that I would be next! Not only did I witness my brother and sister getting spanked, but I saw one of my cousins get a bare bottom spanking once. I'll post more about that later.

I didn't like getting spanked when I was a kid, but I was always curious about spankings. I always paid close attention to others as they talked about their spankings (still do), but I am usually too embarrassed to talk about mine.

Please share your experiences of seeing others get a spanking!
tandjt tandjt 26-30, F 32 Responses Sep 23, 2010

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I never saw anyone get a real spanking . i so was never spanked. but i still have the desire to have a female. put me over her knee and sbank ne bare butt first by hand then a belt.

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please add me as your friend. i want to share it with you.

I received the belt bare bottom from the ages of nine to eighteen and regularly whip my two teenage daughters and a nephew living with us.

Well done, Karla! Do you whip them fully bare, being a nudist? Would love to chat, pls accept my friend request.

know that feeling tandjt dear,,,, yes got to see my siblings getting it and some saw me getting spanked, and if we had friends over if they didnt leave in time they sometimes saw us being spanked too and yes even when we are in our late teens and early 20's

The three of us boys, 10. 12 (me), and 16, after we had moved into a small town, on the main street, near the corner, where portions of our backyard could be seen by three different streets.Cardinal rule around the house was that, "If it didn't belong to you, you had no business touching it." Something that belonged to mom, in regards to her sewing or knitting was misplaced and the three of us boys were responsible for its disappearance.We were made to ***** naked and walk out the backdoor and stand in front of mom while she sat in her chair and smoked her cigarette and then one at a time we were made to bend over a chair that was put on the picnic table in the middle of the yard and get spanked naked, while the other two stood facing the main street, waiting our turns.Mom made it clear that anyone of us that tried to cover ourselves were going to be punished differently. I did just that and covered myself.After my brothers got their spankings we went into the house and mom had another cigarette. About half-way through her cigarette, I was told to walk out the front door (naked) and keep walking toward the driveway, until she came out and told me to stop.She walked right up to me and finished her cigarette and made me face the road (standing) while she spanked me and lead me back into the house. Right then I made a deal with my brothers that anytime they got into trouble, if at all possible blame me and I will take their punishment.I had gotten spanked completely naked just about everywhere you can imagine, on the side of the freeway, in stores, in resturaunts, etc., and in front of so many women.The one thing I did tell my brothers is that if dad was spanking they were on their own. Because, dad didn't hit hard enough and dad would make you drop your pants, where mom made you streak naked ... ANYWHERE and EVERYWHERE, and then she spanked you there.

Your story talks about watching others being spanked and not liking it (or to that effect).
As we were growing up, the three of us boys got our share of spankings and both of my brothers hated it. So, I made a deal with them to see if it were possible for me to take the blame and get spanked in their place.

I am going to stop here as I do not want to offend. But, if you are interested in my story, let me know.

Yes, I'm interested. As I mentioned before, I enjoyed getting paid for it, then I got to enjoy it (bare bottom spankings).

I never saw anyone get a spanking, but I got many. I then enjoyed it as long as they were not too severe.

Did ur cousin like his spankings?

I would love to see another adult woman spanked very long and hard. can you add me?

i will spank bare

When I Was Growing Up I Witnessed Our Neighbors Daughters Getting Their Spankings

When I was 8 years old my mom, 7-year-old sister and I moved to Florida and became friends with the family across the street from us. They had 3 daughters 7, 8, and 10 years old. There dad and my mom were in the military but worked different places on base. My sister and I started school the 6th. Week in the first 6 week period. These girls mother was a stay at home mom, and agreed to watch my sister and me after school. Their mother would walk the 5 of us to school and meet us after school and walk back home with us. The girls got their report cards on that Friday. I noticed all the way home these girls were being all quit for it being Friday and for not having any homework for the weekend. As soon as we walked in there house there mother asked for there report card and told all 3 of her girls to go to there bed room and she will let them know when there dad gets home. The mother told my sister and me to sit on the couch and we could watch TV. At 3:30 their dad gets home from work, and goes in the kitchen to fix a pot of coffee like he did every day. As he went in the kitchen this day the mother went in to the bedrooms and told the girls that there father was home and then she return to the kitchen and got the girls report card and put the report cards on the dining room table. And went to the hall way going to the bedrooms and told the girls to come in and to get there report cards of off the table and line up. As the girls came out of the bedrooms all 3 where striped naked. They walk over to the dinning room table and each picked out their report card and lined up on the far wall facing my sister and me. Next to them was a workout bench with out any weights on it. The mother comes back in to the living room and collected all 3 report card from the girls and instructed the girls to put their hands to their sides and there father will be in in a minute. The mother went back end to the kitchen with the father it seemed at least 5 minutes. He comes out with the report cards and put the cards on the coffee table in front of the couch where my sister and me was sitting and went to his bedroom to return with a thick paddle. Comes over to the coffee table and picks up a card and ask Tina (10) year old to step forward and went over her grades with her 3 F’s, 2D’s and a C. 7 licks for each F, 5 licks for every D and 3 licks for everyday they had stayed home in that 6 week period. 37 licks for Tina. He then would then tell Tina to get into position. The girls would have to straddle the workout bench and lay flat on the bench and be up on their elbows. There dad would rare back with the paddle and smack there naked bare bottoms hard and Tina would cry out and catch her breath, He would hit her 37 times like that each time letting her cry out and then catch her breath. Beverly was 8 years old she was in my class at school. When her dad had her to step forward I was thinking that I might be the only boy that had ever seen her naked before. She was cute. She got 4 F’s and2 D’s and missed 1 day of school so Beverly got 41 licks on the work out bench. Karlee was 7 years old she was in my sister’s class. She got 3 F’s 1 D, and 2 C’s. And missed one day of school. A total of 29 licks on the workout bench. On the following Monday on the way to school Beverly asked me not to tell any one at school about her spanking and I told her I wouldn’t.

Did you get aroused watching them get paddled that way? I'm sure I would have.

You shouldn't be embarrassed. Spanking gives good sensations to both the spanker and the spankee. Your mom was sure having nice time.

So, why are you embarrassed?

We were very seldom taken upstairs it took place where we were confronted in the living room, most of the time. several times in the kitchen and mother or dad believed in taking us to a public bathroom or back to the car to get the point across. A friend came over one day and my sister was getting hers and she was a drama queen and made it sound worse, as I was leaving not know she was there I was told not so fast, seeing I was apart what took place I was to go in , well as dad finished up, I was next he put the paddle down and motioned me to take my skirt up and panties down and go across his lap I laid there as mom told me that I was apart of my sisters doings and I was older and should have stopped it. He always warmed up the bottom and so did mom when she spanked by creating heat by rubbing it first and then the spankings began. It was a longer one and I was crying and kicking which add several but when I came out my friend told me she hoped it did not hurt she could count them and at least I did not get the belt like she did. I got the point to tell when she was up to no good.

You parents shared the same passion of spanking you.


My dad was never in the picture so my mom spanked me on my hands but I had many spankings by aunts and uncles on the bare with belts, wooden spoons, and hands. I always hated spankings but now I can't wait to get a spanking. My fiance spans me with a belt and a pale on my bare butt..

I don't rly care if I get spanked. I get in trouble all the time so I'm used it.

I too hated being spanked or strapped as a kid, I too was curious and loved watching others being punished. As an adult I craved corporal punishment but I was always to shy to broach the subject with my girlfriend. One day after a little wine I brought out a strap similar to the one used on me years ago. I told her that I would like 12 across my bare bum. She was surprised but agreed to play along and now she enjoys administering discipline to her naughty boy. Also to my great delight she likes being spanked as well.

Hi there so u said u didnt like getting spanked as a kid but it xcites u as an adult right have u been spanked as a adult now n if u did u enjoy it ?

i often feel confused i had my bare bottom smacked hard frequently as a child and i would always be scared at the thought of it happening but now as an adult i really want my partner to spank me is it normal


I would like any future partner to spank me bare.

i also get embarrased about getting spanked i was often spanked on my bare bottom and i remember it hurting alot

She was not wearing PE outfit, as they went from study hall. Those jeans with the 2 zippers in front was what she was wearing that day---they were popular back in the 70s.

Very interesting post. I have plenty to relate with you as a pro spanking dad etc.

Lol! Thats cute :) Well do u get spanked now if so please share ty Spnkbooty

Mother spanked us. Dad never did. I am not embarrassed talking about it. It's been to long ago and I would agree that I deserved each and every one of them.

I didn't see many spankings as they were actually happening--a couple of neighbor boys, but guys getting spanked never interested me much (naturally!). Girls on the other hand.....Darlene, my gf when I was in college was a senior at District 3 HS here in Spartanburg, SC, and the paddle was still very much in use in 1977 (still is). We dated about 2 years, so we got to know each other very well ,and she was the first girl I ever had intercourse with. She had been paddle once in elementary school---just 2 swats in 6th grade. But here she was a senior, and her study hall had gotten disruptive one day and the whole class had to take detention for 2 weeks, including Saturdays. They didn't have ISS in '77, but that's basically what it was, except you had to stay late, AND come in on Saturday mornings. Well, Darlene and some others practically revolted and told the principal they didn't deserve 2 weeks of detention because a teacher couldn't control his classroom. He then gave them a choice of 10 paddle licks or the detention. She told me that all the boys and most of the girls took the paddlings. I was allowed to drive her to and home from school by this time, so on the way home she described in vivid detail everything that had happened just about 2 hours earlier. They weren't paddled in the office, and the principal didn't administer the licks: the girls were marched to the auditorium (which was the gym, and a stage in front for special programs). They went onto the stage and there were two women holding long, wooden school paddles. One by one, the girls were told to bend over what she said looked like a padded sawhorse. We had similar things in gym class that were used for gymnastics, but it also looked like the things they put on the track for the runners to hurdle. Darlene didn't say why there were 2 "paddlers", but when her turn came, she said the first few weren't that bad. "The sixth one really stung, and after that it was a blur." The woman who dod the paddling started kind of slow, but after the first 4, she laid the licks on faster, and by the end of it, Darlene said she could barely catch her breath. She didn't cry--Darlene would NEVER let that happen. She was 5'8", a member of the dance team and played basketball and volleyball. She wouldn't be caught dead shedding tears from a paddling from a WOMAN! ;-) But she did say "that woman really burnt her up good,", and since we were very close by this time, she showed me the damage. Two round bruises, the one on the right cheek slightly larger than the one on her left. Her but was still a little red, but I'm sure it had been a lot redder 2 hours before. Still, she said "It's still stingin'" and she still felt the burn the next day. The bruises lasted almost a week. But she made it a point to pass by the study hall teacher's room and let him know she wouldn't be doing detention with him. I'm amazed that girl didn't get another spanking for her attitude!

Very interesting thanks.

That is a superb account of a wonderful old style ritual paddling. The vaulting horse was a great touch, it was used in that way at our school too.

New here hi all; When I was younger I had a large family move in next door. It was nice to have neighors again but it was all girls but one boy who was closed to my age 12 The mom was stay at home and thier father was a tugboat capt so he was away alot. Now I was spanked by my mom not a lot my dad wasn't home much either so she did most of the spankings when needed. Now there were 6 girls 16 to 10 and Mike who was 11 I was over one Friday that stands out to this day. Mary 16 deb 14 Bonnie 13 Geri 12 her twin Colleen 12 and Kathy 10 and Mike well it was about the time report cards were handed out in school. Barbie came into the front room where we were watching TV. She told the kids we have some punishments tonight to do. I told Mike good-bye it was time to exit. But Barbie told me to stay put that I was there friend and they did it to me as well. Plus I was a bite scared of her so I just watched kelp my mouth shut. She called each girl up and then Mike.<br />
Mary and Deb and Colleen were the ones who got real bad grades so they will be punished tonight. <br />
They were sent to the showers to return only in there PJ's None I watched very quite each take turns going over there mother knee each pulling down there PJ pants and there mother paddle each and yes each were crying by the end. They were grounded for 2 weeks and I knew they would get it again when there father came home. The next day I asked Mike who or what happen to him and the others Mike told me he was spared any punishment because he got B's and Cs this time. But his other sister all got paddled the next morning and he said when his Dad gets home this Sunday they will be getting the belt from him. They were my neighors until I left and I saw a few more eye opening spankings but the 1st one was the 1st one. <br />
Thanks again for having a place to share.

Sounds like a teenage boys wildest dreams come true. What did the paddle look like?

It's not fair. Boys in our family were never bare bottomed spanked but we always were. They always got enjoyment from watching us &amp; we just had to be pissed and embarrassed.

me and my best friend witenessed each others spankings and we still remember the biggest ones but mostly i would see my father spanking my brother (Jordan) for the biggest of things like, hitting or breaking stuff of value. so yes i have seen others like you and recieved them too

interesting he got spanked for hitting and now he's getting hit

I have also a younger sister I when we were both getting a spanking I had to wait. then it was my turn. One timeI was around 10 my mom was about to stop spanking my sister, I ran and hid from my mom. it made it worse when my mom found me she ******** my bottom and she spanked me all over, on my thighs I was so red and sore I had steam on my bottom.<br />
when I wore shorts or a dress you could tell I got spanked. it was sore and red for a couple days. I learned my lesson after that I never did hide from mom again.

Hi people,i was in the same boat as all of you,infact i'f there was a prize given i would've won 'Most spankings in a year' 5 or 6 years running,lol. I was naughty & did deserve everyone,its good we can all relate to each other & compare our childhoods,none of which seem to be much different from any others.I'm happy to talk anytime i'm online,just give me a shout, Kate.x

You were raised so differently from me. I was never spanked but was always threatened with spankings and strappings. Anti-climatic, right? Anyways, I'd love to chat... hope you'll accept my friend request.

kate tell ,me more

Tan,<br />
I am also a woman who was raised with frequent bare bottomed spankings and as the oldest I had to wait and watch my sister crying as her fanny turned red, knowing I was next!<br />
I'd love to be friends and share more with you or others who were raised with spankings.<br />
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That's funny, as the oldest I always had to go first &amp; got the longest spankings.

Hi Tandjt,<br />
your story is very similar to mine. I got a lot of spankings from mom, and my sister and brother got too. Being spanked two or three at the same time (well, one after the other) was not an usaul scene at home. My feelings were exactly the same that yours. I don't liked being spanked of course, It hurted to much and I cried a lot, but I've been always curious and fascinated about it, specially when not was my poor little bare bottom receiving a good hiding. I received my last spanking at 16, but i continued seeing my little brother and my cousins spanked for a couple of years, and I started enjoying soon. I too developed a spanko fetish, and I start liking giving and receiving spankings.