If Someone Could Help Me?

I am 18, and I don't want kids right now! But I was recently told that I might not be able to have kids. I am an only child and I have been dreaming about having a big family from a very young age. And I am know that there are some exceptions to these things, but I have been really depressed and can't think about anything else. I am in college, I shouldn't be worried about these things. I should be focusing on school, but I find myself sitting in the dark just thinking about how I would be a great mom. I don't know where to turn! My friends don't understand, how can they understand something I don't even understand. My mom says I shouldn't think about it. Easier said than done. And I have been pushing all guys away because I feel like they won't love me and they will just leave me. This is getting so bad. I hate it, if someone could help that would be great!
CollegeGirl1994 CollegeGirl1994
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3 Responses Sep 25, 2012

My name is Jake im a 27 single father. I fell in love with a girl. She was pregnant and all I wanted was to help her. She was a foster child with many emotional problems. I loved her unconditionally and always tried harder for her. I had nothing when we met. But I wanted to help her and be a father so badly in my heart that I changed everything about life. We had a house and I became a daddy to a fatherless beautiful little girl. Then we had a little boy. She changed after our son was born. She pushed us away. She left with our little girl. She left and made decisions that would prevent us from ever being together again. My son is one now. I've raised him alone. A single mother will always have the opportunity to find a husband and father. But who would want to become a wife and mother. I've met none. I want more than anything to spiol sumone who only has to ask sweetly. And my son is so adorable I'm afraid to take him in public for fear of him being baby napped. That was a joke but he is very adorable and very charming. All I have to say is don't lose hope. This day and age single father's are becoming less rare of an occurrence! Have hope because I'm searching for someone just like you! And there are others just like me that pray to have someone just like you!!

I'm also 18, and feel the exact same way you do! And I feel so stupid trying talking about it with older adults that are all, "You shouldn't be worrying about kids missy go do your anatomy homework!" and you can't talk about it with your friends, cause mine are just like, "Wow! You don't have a period, you're so lucky! Oh wait what were you saying again?" it sucks, having nobody to talk to when you have so much on your mind. And I feel like no guy will want to marry a broken wife like me too! I pray you are able to have kids.

My name is Jake im a 27 single father. I fell in love with a girl. She was pregnant and all I wanted was to help her. She was a foster child with many emotional problems. I loved her unconditionally and always tried harder for her. I had nothing when we met. But I wanted to help her and be a father so badly in my heart that I changed everything about life. We had a house and I became a daddy to a fatherless beautiful little girl. Then we had a little boy. She changed after our son was born. She pushed us away. She left with our little girl. She left and made decisions that would prevent us from ever being together again. My son is one now. I've raised him alone. A single mother will always have the opportunity to find a husband and father. But who would want to become a wife and mother. I've met none. I want more than anything to spiol sumone who only has to ask sweetly. And my son is so adorable I'm afraid to take him in public for fear of him being baby napped. That was a joke but he is very adorable and very charming. All I have to say is don't lose hope. This day and age single father's are becoming less rare of an occurrence! Have hope because I'm searching for someone just like you! And there are others just like me that pray to have someone just like you!!

you should see a fertility expert. what doctor told you you might not be able to have children? the expert should give you some answers and peace of mind that way you know for sure and prepare for your options even if you dont want kids now. information is everything dependng on the type of fertility there are option available to you. I myselft got treatment and was able to have 2 kids even after i miscarried 3 times.