As Long As They Aren't Bill Collectors Maybe It's Ok For Them To Find Me?
The whiole issue of trust rears it's scary (for me) head. I'm on some search sites with my real name and information and I get reports that someone is searching for me and all I have to do is pay this membership fee and they'll tell who they are. One obvious problem is I'm not sure I want them to know where I am. Also, they are all over the place in palces I never lived. On the other hand, in the Army I met people overseas that of course had lives here that I never knew anything about so it's possible. What do you do if you reconnect with someone from your past, even someone nice? You're married and hopefully they are too. You live miles apart and have had no contact for 50 years. What are chances you have anything in common? What do you think?