I Can't Do Anything Right

I've tried to be a good friend, tried to be there, but the harder I try, the more I seem to be doing wrong. I get told that I don't understand, that I wouldn't want to know; I always say the wrong thing. It's not that I don't care, coz I do, so much. It's just that I don't know what to say, and that is worse than anything. I want so bad to be able to support my friends in a way that doesn't make me seem arrogant or uncaring, I try so hard. I hate the way I come across, but most of the tie, I don't even notice it because I think that I'm doing the right thing, but apparently I'm not.. I hate it, I hate that I always get pushed down by it and it makes me feel worse. Or it's that sometimes I'm trying to figure what to do with my life or solve a problem, that I get told that I'm too selfish, it destroys me so much that I can't get it right, I wish it was different...

hurtandpain hurtandpain
18-21, F
7 Responses Mar 11, 2010

if its only that one friend ,id say it was that person and not u

The problem is, it's only one of my friends that apparently I 'do everything wrong', so I don't knnow anymore

You must be lacking sense of humor in your speech. Many of us have that problem those who knows how to talk smooth and fluent with flowery slang get along well with others. Bonnie.

If you're trying to then thats totally fine. Let your friends know and hopefully they understand. At least let them know that you really care but that the wrong words come out. (: That would mean a lot!

I don't know who's telling you all this negative stuff. You just have to know your motives and intent..Know yourself. Stand up for yourself too. Never buy into what you are told 100%.You'll get more respect and less flack. Trust this advice and you'll take it into your future.

I'm so glad to hear that

your not alone in feeling this way