I Hope Not...

I love sex and I make no secret of this. I write about it and I will talk about it. However I try to convey that there has to be something special, a real love connection for me to pull my panties down for a man.    I am very picky about the men I am intimate with.  I only want to love one man for the rest of my life.

fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
46-50, F
1 Response Mar 5, 2010

What you are saying is pretty normal for most women to say. Men on the other hand don't know what to think because they really don't know how they feel. A broad statement I know and of course not all men fit into this majority of men.<br />
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I on the other hand have found some interesting thoughts on this subject and a few others have as well. In good spirit I my dawn my birthday suit with someone. I can not say it is because this person is the one and only. How many times have we all thought this and at some point in time end up growing in a different direction from the person we first thought was the One.<br />
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This to date only causes heart ache and misery. When we get together in the first place it is in good spirits. It seems to go by way of bills and children and jobs. Life gets in the way. As I understand it. We were not supposed to live in this fashion. Life was meant to be fun. I am not saying one should shirk responsibility, just lighten up and not be so damn intense about it. Possessive.<br />
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When someone gets mad at someone because they went away is not because of the other person, it is because they miss the way the other person made them feel. It really isn't the person, it is the feeling that you miss. If someone else made you feel that way then it is still the feeling that is missing. Comfort.<br />
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When you think about it, anyone can generate those feelings. Yes there is chemistry and what not and no not Just anyone. But understanding there are many that can bring forth those feelings is a fact of life. Having fun with someone doesn't mean they are the one and only. It is that they are the only one at the moment that does it for you.<br />
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Everyone has there own learned responses to this subject and it is not surprising that it may change or be added to along life's way as one opens their mind to the infinite possibilities. <br />
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Just a thought.