What?!? Married And No SexI got married because I loved my husband and sexually attractive to him. Our love life was never over the top but thought when we got married we could have sex when ever we wanted. However, we went from twice a week, to once week, to once a month, to once ever 6 months, to once a year, nothing at all. I haven't had sex with him in several year. I have even lost my desire for him. If he was to walk in the room and actually try to have sex with me, I would have any interest. Viagra, you say. It just gives him a headache. So we tried another. He take it and go get drunk, so drunk he would pass out. I tried to leave and he begged me to stay. He begged and begged.
With the economy the way it is. I haven't been able to find a job else where. I know I will have to leave far away because he follows and begs. I don't know why. I figure if he can't have sex, he figures no one else will want him either. I am know 47 and haven't had real sex in almost 10 years. I hear that this normal - I want to be abnormal.
lostinsanluis 41-45, F 10 Responses 2 Aug 22, 2010