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marriage is so different for everyone and not easy at all to meet even exceed your own expectation to yourself and to your spouse and vice versa....it bring up questions, unsatisfaction, confrontation within yourself and with your spouse. everybody asks am I happy ? Do I really want this?Wrong questions lead to wrong answer, instead we should all ask what makes me happy in this situation,how can we make it happen more often? what else can be done to bring more joy, laughter , quality memories.....Just some thoughts ....let me know if I agree or have other thoughts like this...

i am sure most married people ask themselves this question at least once during their marriage. i guess a lot has to do with your expectations and how they meet up to reality. i know my reality does not meet my expectations and that causes conflict for me.

There are different types apparently. But it is up to us to make it work. I see different styles: Marriage with kids. Marriage with no kids. Marriage with a spouse who is loving and understanding. Marriage with a controlling spouse. Marriage with a busy spouse and marriage with a spouse who is lazy. Everyone still unsatisfied somehow. So I cannot advice you. I am of the opinion that marriage usually begins with Love. Good luck;) x