Out Of Love

I've been married for a year now and compared to other marriages mine seems short. But to me this year has been one if not the longest of my life. I married a man thinking I was madly in love with him, and maybe I was. But throughout this year I came to know a completly different man, a man that I am no longer in love with and perhaps I may never again fall in love with him.

Every single day I ask myself the same question; how can someone who "loves" you so much hurt you so much at the same time? He saw me crying so many times yet did nothing to make it better. Saw how much his actions hurt me but never cared. Promised me I was his only one but I knew I wasn't.
Sunshine1058 Sunshine1058
18-21, F
3 Responses Aug 22, 2012

How are you doing with ur marriage now?

I have been married 7 months and it has been the hardest 7 months of my LIFE. When we were dating things were fine didn't really argue or anything like that. After about 3 months into the marriage my mind started thinking "how can I spend the rest of my life with her?" We can't agree on the color of the sky to this day. Things haven't gotten any better and I know people say to give it time but it gets to the point where you have to say enough is enough and I can't live like this now or ever. Please contact me if you want to talk because I think we could be going through similar situations.

its really the worst thing.but do u know no marriage is perfect.there is more negative attached to it.i got married in same religion .but still i feel that marriage is all about adjustments.but at the both ends.i feel you should give a chance to this relation.one year is very short period.alll the best!!!!!