He waited for me. I had trust issues. I worked on them, and the night before the wedding I told him "you're not marrying me for my great body because I don't have one,"you're not marrying me for my money, because I don;t have any", and "you aren't marrying me because I'm pregnant, because our daughter is already here, so I know you're marrying me because with me is where you most want to be." That was 33 years ago. Good enough to have answered the questions in advance.