My Turn

even though i am still angry at my wife for cheatin,i cant help but wonder what it was like.i dont wanna cheat,but now im wondering what the big fuss was.she says the thrill of getiing caught and stuff like that.i dunno.maybe i should just concentrate on fixing my marriage
SINISTERMEMPHISTO SINISTERMEMPHISTO
26-30, M
2 Responses Jan 9, 2007

It takes a big man to forgive someone who has cheated , so im guessing you have a very big and forgiving heart , so please dont find out what it is like to cheat because two wrongs dont make a right. just concentrate on mending your marriage you sound a great guy , your wife is a very lucky lady

Hey, <br />
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It is me again...Radiant.<br />
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I used to think like that. <br />
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THEN I figured out that all I needed to do was make MYSELF wonderful.<br />
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I outgrew a couple relationships that way, but my men could not complain, they were treated well and they learned to better themselves. <br />
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My better and still developing self attracted someone who tends to self study and develop, so I bet we will be in step with eachother, and no one will out grow the other. <br />
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I learned to LISTEN to them and LISTEN to myself. <br />
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Then I learned to make a goal and plan of action. Then I measured the outcome. If the outcome or the process of getting to the outcome was not satisfactory, It was ok to try again, or change the plan of action, and try again. Life is SO MUCH LIKE BASEBALL, isn't it?<br />
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Radiant