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Rush To Judgment

You know what I find funny that people who don't want to be judged are always judging others but say they don't want you to assume or rush to judgment of them. Now today I had someone who I thought was a friend assume and judge me based on something so silly and childish. They removed me from their circle because my green light on Ep always shows me on..So since I don't do anything all day they didn't want to be my friend..Really. Now I was like first off you must be on a lot to notice that or even care. Second being a mom of 3 busy children 2 still very active in sports I average 3 to 4 games a week,plus me working out 3 to 4 days a week and being a Realtor I am not hardly sitting in front of a computer screen all day. However my phone does keep logged in all the time even when I am not here.

I was insulted and angry that someone I thought was a friend would be so judgmental about something so petty. I found it Hypocritical and really just rude.Rushing to judgment only serves to make a fool out of you and hurt feelings and anger to the other person. No one really knows what is going on in someone's life if you aren't there. One can't always understand what circumstances makes someone do the things that they do. You never really have to agree with me on the things I do but as a friend shouldn't you at least be willing to talk to me before you rush to judgment or assume about matters you really have no knowledge of?
sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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I am continually amazed at how shallow some people can be .... what a petty reason for unfriending someone ... wow

Very Petty indeed..I'm better off without them. i don't need drama in my life.

WOW that person is a jackass!!!!

I couldn't agree with you more..It was just so surprising and very stupid.

Diva, We have been friends a long time, keep my group and circle of friends very small and intimate and always hope we can all trust each other and share. Am so sorry this happened to you, especially with someone it sounds like you enjoyed friendship with. You have always been a sweet lady, an incredible friend and one who never judged me on unusual thoughts I have had. You are trusting and expect that in others, that is what friends are supposed to do, you are a true friend, stay true to that and the fools that drop you like that, let them go. Thank you for being my friend

Dream you know I love you we have shared some moments that's for sure. I have enjoyed our friendship as well. I just learned the hard way that they really weren't my friend because who would drop a friend or something so stupid? :)

Wow, to be upset because you show online all the time? That does seem very odd to me. I get more tickled about that situation then I would be upset. I probably show online all the time too but that is because I leave it logged in on one computer and then go off to work and wind up logging in from work computers, my Ipad, and my android phone through the day. Sort of like being IM. Doesn't mean that I am here but you never know. <br />
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Hon, I know you are busy as a mom and a working woman and I definitely respect that.

I know it is amusing and thats just it I am logged in on my phone all the time as well. Most times I'm not here. The thing that pissed me off was the fact they assumed I was here and told me i need to basically do more with my life..Yea right I barely have time to breath. I thank you for your kind words... :)

LMBO.... People think I am on all the time as well but I have it up in the background on my phone. It does stay logged on often and because of that people have made similar comments to me so I understand where you are coming from. My thing is why is it anyone's business how much time you spend here and then on top of that how do they know lol. I come on here in mini-bursts lately but if you were to look at when my green dot is active and then look at what I post you would think I sit here all day but i can provide several real world people that will tell you different because I am doing things for them constantly lol. Don't let it get you down. Apparently they have some kind of problem with EP being an outlet.

Thanks girl!! you're the best!!

Any time.

Thing is i would never judge you if you were sitting here all day.It is a crazy reason not to to be someones friend.Who am I to tell you what to do with your time. Besides even though I'm not but wouldnt you have to be on all day to notice I was on all day..How crazy is that then you block me and i didn't even do anything..wow..people are just crazy I guess. I appreciate your comment and friendship.

You are welcome.

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