I have found out that my boyfriend at the start of our relationship has cheated on me and we have been together for a year. I don't want to have a huge argument about it but how don't no how to bring it up...
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22-25, F
1 Response Aug 31, 2014

No matter how much you wanna be with that person. You only have one life. Don't waste your time to a person that doesn't care or rather lie to you. There's no other way to bring it up. If it really bothers you you wouldn't try going around it, you would try going through it. And he cares and loves you he'll change for you

Every time I feel like talking about it to him I feel like I'm going to lose everything, all he good times we had and to makes things worse he is my first boyfriend

I was in the same position to. She wasn't my first girlfriend but the the first I ever connected with. And now we're falling apart. She has done the same thing too. We're pretty much in the same situation. I feel like she doesn't even care but I'm still trying. But you know what don't feel bad, you had a great times together and you need to talk to him and tell him to say! This or us .. Give him an ultimatum. It'll talk a lot out of you . I know . Been there . But you need to and it which answers will define your relationship. If says I want this life ask him why? Do you not want me ?.. Do you not love me ? Etc ask him those questions. That'll make him think he made mistake! And just maybe just maybe he'll realize how great you are and change for the better

If he disagrees. Few months later when you're over it you'll say wow what a ****