MEN..... Ewww I Could Hurt Them!!!

I AM SICK AND TIRED OF MY HUBBY DRINKING AND GAMBLING.... BUT EVERYTHING IS MY FAULT...... EWWWW... IF I DIDNT MAKE A PROMISE I WOULD GET DIVORCED!

EEYORE6 EEYORE6
36-40, F
8 Responses Oct 8, 2008

Maybe you're really not meant to be together. It's not really a big deal to get divorced. People make mistakes when they get married. And as someone else said, he is not holding up his end either. <br />
If you can't work things out, it's better to be divorced than miserable!!!

From this story and other's u have posted i really worry that your marriage is in trouble...<br />
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I wanna be there for you for that- but i hope you dont think you are condemned to suffer because of one promise that isn't being upheld on both sides.

Thanks again you guys.... he did call me and apologize but i am stil admift about the situation.....

Eeyore, sweetheart. I understand where you are comming from here- i made a promise to my husband and i do not intend on breaking it for petty reasons.<br />
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But you have to remember, that when you promised to love and respect him and be with him for the rest of his life- he also promised to honor and respect you. It's a 2-way process, if he doesn't treat you with the respect and honor you deserve, you are in no way out of bounds by en ding your commitment.

not his equal? he sounds like a sexist pig!!

thanks you guys i needed a refresher!!<br />
get this my hubbby told me i wasnot equal to him even though we both work and we both watch our kids but its up to me to keep the house clean and laundry and blah blah blah!!! ewwww

THE CONSEQUENCE OF BRAEKING YOUR PROMISE NOT TO DIVORCE HIM WILL NOT BE DEATH BY ELECTROCUTION BUT THE CONSEQUENCE OF KILLING HIM WILL BE A DEATH SENTENCE.<br />
PLEASE DIVORCE HIM TODAY TO AVOID THE WORST CONSEQUENCE .

aw. i'm sorry. bt/dt. these things have a way of working themselves out sometimes tho.