Why Is It So Hard?

Why is it so hard ot just find someone to spend time with?  I don't want a romantic relationship I just want someone to go to the movies with, see concerts with, and go museums with.  Seems that is impossible these days.  Everyone just wants to hook up and have sex.
Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle
36-40, F
5 Responses Aug 11, 2010

What is wrong with sex. Just kidding you and just being with people and enjoy the things of life are great too. Just hang in and wait for the right one and you will be able to share everything together and maybe even sex.

I know what you mean Socks. I am going through the same thing, no matter what I try it just seems being alone is the best thing right now. However I don't want to be alone anymore. Well, maybe this is someone trying to tell me something. lol

I'm having the same problem. I'm getting to the point where I think it's best to be friends with people rather than date. bUT iv been trying this out and guys still treat me as if there playing a game and trying to win me when the whole purpose of me wanting to be friends is to take that pressure off that comes with dating...it's not working either...too many people lie and play games and it going to cause people to lose touch with reality and not know what the heck is going on like we are now...

You know Jenn, I think we over thinking everything these days and intentionally complicate things.

But its not actually 'us' doing that. Its a strong feeling of inadeqacey i think. We dont measure up to what we see on tv.

I completely understand. I was thinking the same exact thing. I don't want to have romance right now but some conversation some laughter why do things have to be so complicated?