If I Had Kids I Would Screw Them Up.

I was talking to someone about having kids and I said, "If I had kids I would probably screw them up," and she said, "Yes, I think you probably would." That is enough evidence that I would make a horrible mother. I should have a hysterectomy immediately.

I think that people (like me) who are hung up about all the things their parents did wrong end up screwing up their kids too, just in a different way. Going from one extreme to another. As a child I was controlled and scared into submission, so when I'm with children I'm so afraid of being too strict that I let them walk all over me. I can see that it wouldn't be healthy to have a mother like that either.

ViennaRose200 ViennaRose200
26-30, F
1 Response Mar 10, 2010

you just need to have a clear view of whats right and wrong. than you wont have a problem. more life experience might help...