Well I can honestly say I have been both in the last 4 years and I like single better . I like doing what I want when I want. Picking my friends, doing stuff with my friends and not having to justify my actions or needed to a unhappy spouse. I have had GF during this time and had more and better sex in the last 4 years then last 15 years of my marriage. As long as you don't mind, cleaning up after yourself, eating and cooking alone and sleeping alone most nights, single is the way to go.