I Like Being Single

Well I can honestly say I have been both in the last 4 years and I like single better . I like doing what I want when I want.  Picking my friends, doing stuff with my friends and not having to justify my actions or needed to a unhappy spouse.  I have had GF during this time and had more and better sex in the last 4 years then last 15 years of my marriage.   As long as you don't mind, cleaning up after yourself, eating and cooking alone and sleeping alone most nights, single is the way to go. 
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46-50, M
3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

I couldn't agree more

You are absolutely right. It is better to be alone than in a bad company. Even i love being single and doing my own things, when you don't have to please anyone or justify yourself. Freedom is priceless and you only live once. If you are lucky enough to get an understanding partner, good enough. Otherwise, no point in living your life is distress.

Amen I love your comment

Within the context of this group, I agree with everything you're saying. But, those are some pretty big "as long as" stipulations you're throwing out there. I don't know that I'll ever genuinely enjoy eating by myself, for example. Granted, I'm a newbie to this single thing...

True, but until I find the right person, I am not going to settle for something I don't want.

Oh, so true...completely agree.

Yeap being single is way better than dealing with some nagging spouse who would do nothing but drive you crazy. Also you can save up and travel whereever and whenever you want to and eat at your favorite restaruants