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Unhappy And Married

My husband and I unhappy married together but afraid of letting go,maybe afraid what the people would say or maybe dont want to disapoint our kids or maybe just easy that way.But im so lonely i can scream the pain out.
Durangos Durangos 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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Get out now before it's to late while your still young...Listen to someone who knows.

i can see @don't want to disapoint our kids but afraid of what people will think???? really? if your children are dependents & still at home, you all OWE them a two parent household, yea, stay together - try & work it out. but if they are adults then you deserve to be unhappy. who cares what other people think when you are so lonely & in pain you want to scream! what kind of life is that? i don't understand marrieds. Its like masochism until death! when one is unhappy they can't be productive; it wears on their mental & physical health, yet year after year you stay. smh.... good luck with all of that.

I can relate with you. My wife and I have been married for 11yrs., and she is bipolar. At first it wasn't a problem, but the last 4 or 5 yrs. have been bad. She doesn't always take her medicine, because she thinks she is doing fine, but then she goes into rages and tirades, but 10 minutes later, its as if nothing happened. I want to get out, but at my age, I'm afraid of the unknown. I'm not concerned with what friends would say, I guess I just don;t want to be alone.

I know that fear of starting again,after what you try to make what you have to stay put,it sucks.But I wish you the best and hope somehow you be happy again regard less of your wife situation

even i am sailing in the same boat for past6years.

dont you wanna stop it?do you see everything as your fault?

its nobody's fault.i feel if i leave everything tdy then also i will be better just bear with it rather than making everyone(my family)bear it.

Okay,but everybody deserve happiness