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No Possibility Whatsoever.

Call me old fashioned, but for me sex is something to be shared with someone special... someone that I'm completely in love with... not a total and completele stranger, which is what a one night stand entails. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with the people that do choose to have one night stands, but it's just not my thing. Honestly, the only person I really do want to sleep with is the guy I end up marrying... and I am guaranteed to stick to it.
in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 27, 2010

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Do not care what people think about you, everyone has a right to choose and what you are choosing is respectable. <br />
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I have seen many young ladies saying that they do not want get into physical relationship until they get married and that is I guess very appreciating.

I agree with "NowSeekingHookups. Sex is a big thing in any relationship. Perhaps it should not be the only thing but it is still important. Maybe what people are trying to tell you is, when you are in love with someone, and the sex and intimacy is a disaster, it can sometimes break up a marriage (and you may not be given the choice in the matter).<br />
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I hope that you meet someone lovely and that everything happens the way you want.

Very nicely written & heartfelt. I would disagree only slightly with the fact that it wont be that big of an issue in marriage. Trust me it can become a HUGE issue. BUT you can find all that out before marriage. I too wouldn't have one night stands for the reasons listed in my post on this page. That doesn't mean I would wait until marriage. BUT (yea another butt...lol) it would be totally exclusive to somebody I LOVE!

I'm with you on this one innocentbeauty. Finding someone to spend your life with goes way past your sex life (unless your life is all about sex - but then there's other issues). I see nothing wrong with saving yourself for the person you marry. Sex isn't just something you do for the moment with whoever is around/willing, it should be something special between you and your other half.

bunkminster - well sex is only one factor of the relationship. yeah, people say that oh, you might marry the person and they might not be good and you might not be compatible and blah blah, but for me it's far more important to find someone I can connect with emotionally and passionately (which doesn't always equate sex) than it is to have a sexually compatible partner. <br />
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Therefore, no I would not end the relationship. Not having perfect sex isn't the end of the world. Losing Mr.Right? well that's a lot worse in my book. <br />
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Spectra - Haha. Experience Project, of course :) And considering I've stuck with it throughout college, which is the place where opinions most likely change, I'm pretty sure that my opinion will be the same.

Ok lets say you meet Mr right. You love him, Parents love him He is your soulmate, Perfect. You get intimate finally. Neither of you two kids are very "worldly" Both of you have limited experience in the sack. He has a performance issue. <br />
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He wants you to do something you are uncomfortable doing. <br />
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Not really bizarre just wants you to wear an old dress. And a gray wig. <br />
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OK what are ya gonna do. - end the relationship? <br />
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Who do ya know that you can discuss this issue.<br />
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Just curious

Alright Ladies, when can i meet you.... er,,, for discussing about the suitability for marriage :D. Jokes apart, it remains to be seen in next years time, where do you stand on this issue.

sweet heart , same goes with me .....! I would only make love with a person , who I would in LOVE with.