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Never In A Million Years

I'm a virgin. (Yes, there are still some of us left in the world.) But even though I'm a virgin, that doesn't mean I'm ignorant about sex or its consequences. I joined this group for the same reason that I joined the group "I am a sensitive person". People and relationships have a large impact on me, whether I want them to or not.

One of my friends has one-night stands all the time. She's also had several pregnancy scares and has had an abortion. None of this bothers her, but it would absolutely crucify me. I'm well aware of the risks that casual sex brings: Pregnancy, STD's, and the like. These risks, coupled with other things I know about myself, make it possible for me to say with absolute certainty that I will never ever have casual sex/a one-night stand. People have a deep and lasting impact on me , even people who are just my friends. I'm saving myself for marriage for the same reason-when I do lose my virginity, I want to lose it to my best friend, to someone who won't just see me as a faceless girl to toss out of bed in the morning.

MadMarch MadMarch 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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You do what you feel is best for you. In any case, "casual" sex would not suit you at all and you would feel guilty anyway.<br />
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Stay focused.

Its better that way, because you will not regret it. :) I have a close friend who has been with several guys (nothing serious) and has had various abortions. I just can not picture myself doing such things, I know it would have a huge impact in my life, How can I kill the baby that I have made? I very emotional and that would break me. I am looking forward for the long term relationship, where the lucky guy whom falls in love with me and I fall in love with, could be my husband :D

You really know what you want at this young age (i guess) which is good. <br />
Just because everybody did it ,doesn't mean you have to do it.<br />
Be strong at where your stand . No means No.<br />
Good Luck