I know that I am capable of doing some things that others could never consider. If someone hurt someone I love, I could without any hesitation end that persons, life and lie about it to protect myself. If times where tuff, I could easily steal to support my family. I have no problems lying to the police or the government. But I could never have an affair. I could never betray someone’s trust so ruthlessly. I have been cheated on myself, and perhaps living through it has created my complete hatred of such an act. It is the one thing that is a complete deal breaker in a relationship to me. I still don't understand how people can do this, especially to someone who has committed themselves to them. I have had friends who have cheated on their spouses, and although they are still friends, I do not respect them the way I would had they remained faithful. Why commit yourself to someone if you want to play the field, spare them your indecency.