I Don't Think It Would Be An Easy Way to Live..

My wife and I have both been prostitutes.. so I can't say I wouldn't want to be one. At first we said it was a one time thing, who were we kidding. The sex is one thing but then you do it just for the money. Or the drugs or the rent. We've both ****** for things like that. I've pimped her and drove her to her 'dates'. I love it when some john puts money in my hand and she loves it when she's gotten cash or a gram of coke because I've sucked some guys ****.

vampyres32,

I like your post and I do not think selling sex, when it involves two consenting adults only, is the worst thing in the world. In reality, when sex happens in the context of love and respect between two consenting adults, it can be a beautiful thing but it is not the only way to experience sex and explore one's sexuality. Relationships, partnerships are fraught with all kinds of financial incentives, arrangements, and dependencies, that we like to believe do not impact our romantic decisions, they do significantly. Sometimes I think seeing sex in the context of a cut and dry transaction, exchanged for money disturbs us because it is not what we want to believe about relationships, the culture is still caught up in the romance of sex.



However, I do think that pimps who steal the profit from prostitutes and underage girls forced to work in the sex industry are extremely problematic, these two aspects are the dark and ugly side of prostitution.

this is a generalization, I am A PTO Mom, an Ex Home maker, I rarely drink, do not touch illegal substances, I am also a prostitute, I work day in and day out with Prostitutes, I also work in a drug free brothel, why I am there is not out of some deep seated pain, not out of sexual abuse, we all sell and buy sex and companionship, dates, movies, flowers, candy its all a means to that end. We also all sell parts of our body in our work duties, when I was training horses, I was selling my mind, skills, and body, when I was plumbing, much the same, some are there for empowerment, like a woman I know who was sold for meth as a child, now days shes in control, she keeps the money, others I know, shes there because she wants to be a Dr, and she is a beauty, shes already passed her ACTS, and had a good enough GPA, just wants to go to a good school, she also rarely drinks. What about the drug abusing movie stars and actors, don't see near as many folks wondering why they do it, We are lucky at ours, we have a good owner for our brothel, we are treated with respect, this is a profession that needs legalized, and workers rights enforced to stave off the issues, and the generalizations

Its sad to see girls working for the wrong reason. It can be a trap in the job to pick up a drug habit even though you may not have had one before. I did this for a while. I had more money and free time and started to use coke recreationally. I started to use it to help get in the mood for work and also was given it by clients. It became very habit forming. I got clean though and still work as I've got goals I want to achieve. I'm saving to pay off a mortgage and love to travel. My job helps me do this.