I Would Rather Be Alone Than Be With the Wrong Person
After being by myself for 10 years and having the occassional date (5) during the 10 year period, I have learned alot about myself. I have learned that I can do most things by myself, but it would be nice to have a man (perferably my husband) around to help. I can work and pay my own bills but, I could benefit from the extra income from a husband. I have fun out with family and friends but, I would like to go out and slow-dance and neck with my future husband. I am not into casual sex. No buts on this one since so many diseases are out there and I am to scary to be sick. I hate the fact that some people you would have to boil in order to even give them a blow job. But I'm thinking and these last few years have been proving me right is the benefits of waiting for the "right" person. I have witnessed my sisters in relationships and they seem to have no foundations of trust, friendship, or love. It is mostly lust driven. It seems that people are "hooking-up" based on looks and for what they might have instead of what drives them and how do they go about lifes' challenges. However, when the glamour goes away they are stuck and disappointed. I highly believe that women shouldn't even let a man "scratch and sniff" unless she knows without a doubt he is worthy of you. Can he help take care of you and any children you might have or plan to have? Do they work or are they go-getters? Can they handle theirs and are you willing and able to help them handle things if necessary? This is not a note to only women, but to men as well. Can she answer any of the questions above without a doubt in your mind that she is being honest? I wasn't trying to wag my finger at anybody. Just a note to those in EP land that know they are good people and deserve the best!!! My sisters are fine with the choices they have made and life does go on, but for me I want the best...(good enough for me). I understand that nobody is perfect and I can deal with any challenge that comes my (hopefully our) way. Another perk of being by myself. Am I happy? Yes, I am. I hope these words do not **** anybody off, but inspire you. This topic made me think of a Karen White song called "I rather be Alone" here is a taste of the chorus. I won't be a fool, a fool for love. Cause I know I rather be alone then be here unhappy, oh no. I'm not gonna choose, choose for you. Cause I know I'd rather be alone then be here unhappy. (This is my fave part of that song) I'm never gonna be a fool for love (I rather be alone) I rather be alone just give it up. Don't make no sense to be " inlove" and be here unhappy. OH NO. Ya might feel good on a lonely night but laying in your arms today ain't right. I'd rather lose you then lose my mind and be here unhappy. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH I don't wanna be a fool for love. To those who have ears listen...........
