just joined this group because i definitley want to be myself and disliked than fake abd adored. yeah i am no oil painting or popular with everyone but maybe that is because when i am honest to others they get the hump. i cannot lie just because i do not want to cause offence if i am asked for my opinion then if find people criticise me. those who are my friends like me for who i am and that is all that matters to me. i really feel sorry for those who are fake and adored because those who i know are really insecure, have plastic enhancements or in huge debt because they are extravangant with money they don't have to treat "friends". good luck to them though but i am happy being me!!