Black Friday/ Red BottomOk. So I deserved it. I was given a very strict budget for Black Friday shopping and when the money was spent, I did as told and came home. I took a nap and when I woke up it was stil very early and there were so many stores and so many deals that I still thought I might have a chance to get. It was all too much for me to take and I went shopping again and every dime I spent this time out was over budget and out of savings which is a BIG no no no! I do not handle finances because I am so bad at it and honestly it is just so much easier to let my husband handle it all and let me know what I can and cannot do. Well he came home from work and asked if my shopping was a success and I replied, yes. He asked if I had any money left over and I replied, no. We went on with our evening and I made dinner and after I cleaned the kitchen I went to take my nightly bath as always. When I got out of the shower and walked into our bedroom, he was sitting on the bed waiting for me. This was not good.
He told me that he was offended that I apparantly thought he was stupid and wouldn't find out I overspent and to top it all off, he gave me the whole day to fess up and I chose not to. This is when my husband undid his belt and pulled it from the loops of his pants. He doubled the belt as he knows I hate that and instructed me to lay across the bed, pillows under hips and to get comfortable because this was going to take some time. He always spanks with a belt, sometimes the hand but even that will finish with the belt, so I was used to it so I figured it would hurt but what I didn't know was that he apparantly was holding back because with the first whack I knew suddenly that I didn't know what I got myself into. He continued to bring the belt down on my backside over and over and over and I lost track of how many smacks and how much time had passed. He then told me to kneel before him and beg for forgiveness, which I humbly and sincerely did. I knew I was wrong and I know how hard he works to balance the budget and make sure I have some money for special things and instead of appreciating it I took him for granted. I am thankful for his guidance and discipline. I am going to be much more cautious with spending habits from now on.