Writing, Perspective, and Heavy Petting
One rule of writing is to write what you know...the same in oral storytelling.
However there is some room for imagination, and well...make believe.
I can in a sense put myself in the place of someone and come up with a narrative for that person that can make my reader or listener believe I have experience in that arena...even if I haven't.
Just because I can write from the vantage of a murdering and unbalanced person, does not mean I have a murderer within me dying to get out...forgive the pun... It also does not mean that I have mental issues that allow me to be so convincing as a psychopath.
It is the same when I write about sexual characters or orally tell erotica to another.
I can spin a tale of lust from the position of a heterosexual, bisexual, or even a lesbian woman even though my sexual history has been only with men.
The closest I have ever had as a sexual encounter with a woman was 2 lap dances, and that was extremely limited, by the constraints of the club...and the fact I was nervous as hell. At least I opened myself up to that experience, and perhaps that is why I can be convincing in my tales of girl on girl action.
No matter where or how we gain our creative energies the ultimate ob
Erotica can be a form of foreplay as much as heavy petting ....after all the brain is the largest sexual organ in the body and it needs petting too.