You Feel Misunderstood By Your Family You get along with everyone in your family, and you tend to play the peacemaker. You can see issues from all sides.

You feel like some members of your family are too unhappy. These family members tend to create unhappiness for everyone else.

It's sometimes hard for your family to understand who you are now. You've changed a lot, and they have trouble accepting the new you.

You have trouble keeping up with your family member's birthdays and anniversaries. You are often late with your gifts.

The last part isn't true.... Unless you reverse it. They always seem to be late for my birthday and anniversary. Now that Shane's gone, the anniversary part won't matter any more. However, I bet you ten to one that only my momma & grandparents will remember my birthday.... Shane didn't even get me anything (not even a card) the last 3 yrs we were together. Sometimes I really HATE being me..... I expect too much from people I guess..... All I get for my trouble is disappointment and pain.... =((

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1 Response Feb 12, 2009

For years I was the peace maker in my family it was only me that made any of them talk to each other, I never got any thanks for helping get my sisters back on speaking terms with each other and numerous other things I have sorted out between other family members.<br />
But they all make me sick because if I didn't make the first move EVERY time none of us would ever speak to each other.<br />
Well I'm not and havn't for a while now made any effort with my family they are just a waste of time and not worth my efforts.